I have just discovered my husband is a regular patron of this gay store and has been for many years! He would be the african american who always feels welcome. This certainly explains alot!
I understand the owner is quite a hottie AND he gives a substantial discount under the right circumstances and for the right favors. And from what I am told asians are "right up my husband's alley" so I'm sure they have a very "tight" friendship!
Play Safe condoms-don't leave home without them!